
In showjumping, talent and good horses only go so far. Long-term progress—whether you are aiming to move up the levels, gain consistency, or compete at championship level—depends heavily on the quality of your coaching relationship. Yet even the best coach cannot deliver results in isolation. Riders who improve most consistently understand that coaching is a partnership, not a service to be passively consumed.
Getting the best out of your showjumping coach requires clarity, preparation, accountability, and mutual respect. When these elements are in place, training becomes focused, efficient, and genuinely transformative.
Set Clear and Realistic Goals
Effective coaching begins with direction. If you are unclear about what you want to achieve, your training will lack focus.
Start by identifying short-, medium-, and long-term goals. These might include improving consistency at a certain height, qualifying for a series, developing a young horse, or refining jump-off performance. Equally important is distinguishing between outcome-based goals (results, placings, qualifications) and process-based goals (rideability, accuracy, adjustability, confidence).
Sharing these objectives with your coach allows them to design sessions that align with your ambitions rather than defaulting to generic exercises. Goals should be reviewed regularly and adapted as your horse, circumstances, or priorities change.
Arrive Prepared to Train
Lesson time is valuable. Riders who make the most progress treat training sessions with the same professionalism as competition rounds.
Arrive warmed up and ready to work, both physically and mentally. Know how your horse has felt in recent rides, whether there are any soundness concerns, and what exercises have been productive or challenging. A coach should be refining your performance, not spending half the lesson uncovering basic information.
Mental preparation is equally important. Reflect on what you want to focus on that day and be ready to engage fully. Preparation allows your coach to work at the appropriate level immediately, maximizing the value of every session.
Communicate Openly and Honestly
Strong communication underpins all successful coaching relationships. Your coach relies on accurate information to make good decisions.
Be open about your horse’s behaviour, confidence, and physical condition, as well as your own mindset. If you do not understand an exercise or correction, ask for clarification. Thoughtful questions demonstrate engagement, not incompetence.
Equally, if a particular explanation or approach is not resonating with you, raise this respectfully. Coaches are highly skilled, but they are not mind readers. Honest dialogue ensures that instruction remains effective and relevant.
Take Responsibility for Your Own Progress
A coach can guide, observe, and correct—but improvement ultimately lies with the rider.
Listen carefully during lessons and apply feedback consistently. Take notes, review videos, and practice the exercises you have been given between sessions. Riders who repeatedly revert to old habits slow their own development and limit how much a coach can help them.
Accountability is a defining trait of successful riders. Treat each lesson as part of an ongoing process, not an isolated event.
Be Willing to Address Fundamentals
Many riders want to jump bigger fences when the real issue lies elsewhere. Balance, rhythm, straightness, and quality of canter are the foundation of successful showjumping at every level.
Trust your coach when they insist on revisiting basics. Progress is rarely linear, and stepping back to improve fundamentals often unlocks significant gains later. Being honest about your weaknesses—whether technical, mental, or physical—allows your coach to tailor training to your specific needs.
Commit to a System, Not a Shortcut
Most effective coaches work within a defined training philosophy. To evaluate whether a system works for you, you must commit to it consistently.
Avoid mixing conflicting advice from multiple trainers, social media sources, or clinics simultaneously. This often leads to confusion, inconsistency, and stalled progress. While critical thinking is important, frequent changes of direction undermine learning.
Consistency builds understanding, confidence, and trust—both for the rider and the horse.
Reflect After Lessons and Competitions
The most valuable learning often happens after you dismount.
Review what worked, what did not, and why. Discuss competition rounds constructively with your coach, focusing on decision-making, preparation, and execution rather than results alone. Reflection transforms experience into improvement and helps guide the focus of future training sessions.
Build a Long-Term Professional Relationship
Finally, recognize that the strongest coaching outcomes are usually achieved over time. Reliability, punctuality, respect, and openness go a long way in building trust.
Good coaches challenge riders. They deliver uncomfortable feedback when necessary and resist shortcuts that compromise long-term development. When mutual respect exists, this honesty becomes a powerful catalyst for improvement.
Final Thoughts
Getting the best out of your showjumping coach is not about finding the “perfect” trainer—it is about being the kind of rider who maximizes the value of expert guidance. With clear goals, thoughtful preparation, open communication, and personal accountability, coaching becomes a strategic partnership that drives sustainable progress, stronger performances, and better outcomes for both horse and rider.
Some Coaches Don’t Support You - They Supervise You
There’s a difference between support and surveillance.
Support feels like someone is on your team. Surveillance feels like someone is waiting to judge you.
Supervision shows up as:
- constant commentary from the rail,
- comparing you to others,
- telling you what you “should” be doing,
- reminding you of past mistakes,
- only focusing on outcomes.
Support looks very different:
- asking how your session went
- listening before offering input
- respecting your goals and pace
- celebrating progress that others might miss
Riding improves when you don’t feel watched, corrected, or evaluated every time you put your foot in the stirrup. The right people don’t make your training heavier — they make it lighter.



